Post by IndigoDreamer on Sept 24, 2019 9:47:12 GMT
I just had to post about this because I think it's one of the nastiest ways to leave something. I mean seriously? Treating someone like they are not even worth a single sentence of clarity and closure is cruel and mean.
All it does is add more pain, confusion and mental anguish. I have been ghosted so many times now that I've come to expect it now. If a guy doesn't message for a few days yet I see him online my natural assumption now is that he's met someone he likes better and is talking to them instead and just tossed me aside like all the others have done in the past.
It feels so horrible to feel like you just don't matter at all to people. That they can just walk away and forget you in a single moment and not give a shit about your feelings.
So if you felt that ghosting was okay that it's a kinder way to end something or reject someone it's NOT it is so much worse. So please have the balls/ovaries to step up and just says that one sentence that's needed so give this person some closure and some god damn fucking respect!
All it does is add more pain, confusion and mental anguish. I have been ghosted so many times now that I've come to expect it now. If a guy doesn't message for a few days yet I see him online my natural assumption now is that he's met someone he likes better and is talking to them instead and just tossed me aside like all the others have done in the past.
It feels so horrible to feel like you just don't matter at all to people. That they can just walk away and forget you in a single moment and not give a shit about your feelings.
So if you felt that ghosting was okay that it's a kinder way to end something or reject someone it's NOT it is so much worse. So please have the balls/ovaries to step up and just says that one sentence that's needed so give this person some closure and some god damn fucking respect!
